Tuesday, November 10, 2009

10 Golden Rules for Staying Happy with the One you Love

1. First and foremost, love each other. Say "I love you" often and in different ways. Do things to keep your love and romance new and alive. Don't take love for granted.. ever!

2. Listen objectively to each other, and accept each other completely. Give each other the right to disagree and to have different opinions.

3. Never stop treating eac other like sweethearts. Talk to each other as sweethearts and do things that sweethearts do. Don't let external values have more importance than the internal feelings of your heart.

4. Take care of each other. Put the other one first, but don't neglect your own needs either. Do the things that show you're interested in your partner's needs, desires, and problems.

5. Be joyful that you've each made a commitment to the other... through sickness and health and everything else. Be thankful you're in this life together.

6. Talk about things together. Refuse to say anything negative about your partner. Never betray each other's secrets. Keep your own identity, but walk together as one.

7. Settle the fact that you've made your choice and you're no longer looking for anyone else. Don't flirt. Think of the consequences. Don't consider it.

8. Be in agreement about how your money is spent. Big items should have the approval of both. Talk about how to manage your finances.

9. Treat each other as you would want to be treated. If you've argued, never go to sleep at night without asking the other's forgiveness. Be faithful about this. Do what will make yo uboth the happiest and be the best of your relationship.

10. Have fun!

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

The Journey Begins!!!

We'd first like to wish my parent's a very HAPPY ANNIVERSARY*! We only hope and pray that we could follow in their footsteps to a long-lasting marriage.

So I've decided to start a blog and add it to our
site so that our friends and family will be able to follow our wedding planning journey without asking questions everytime they see us. Not that we wouldn't be willing to share, but we felt like this would be the best way to keep anyone who wanted to be up-to-date on the same page. We'll be posting our ideas and thoughts about each aspect of the wedding. Comments are definitely welcomed, so please feel free to give us your two sense.

I hope everyone is as excited as we are for the big day!! (date still TBD) It's definitely a day that every little girl dreams about and it's finally happening. EEK!

♥ Meg